Let me share with you some observations for optimism.
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Balancing Act: The Newsletter(No. 258, February 2021) |
Balancing act is in four sections this month: |
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I’ve never believed that a golf shot was “courageous,” as some of the overheated commentators often claim. I don’t think that making a speech is heroic, though it can be daunting and difficult. I do believe that courage and heroism mean standing in harm’s way, which was a saying of the true naval hero, John Paul Jones (“I intend to sail into harm’s way….”) The comedian Bill Maher once infamously observed that the true heroes of 9/11 were the Islamic terrorists flying the planes into the World Trade Center because they knew they’d die. I don’t think murdering unsuspecting claims adjustors, financial analysts, secretaries, and mail room personnel is “sailing into harm’s way” or brave by any definition imaginable. I once watched a tape of the often-satirized, often-reviled Prince Charles of England giving a lecture. A gunman entered and fired two shots at him. They turned out to be blanks, but Charles had no way of knowing that. He simply stood his ground, never tried to hide or scream for help. I’ve admired his bravery ever since. We have a lot of arm-chair, virtual heroes who cite what others should have done at dangerous junctures, or what they would surely have done had they been there. That isn’t exactly a dangerous occupation. I watch firefighters race into burning buildings, and I’m not sure I could ever do that. They are the heroes who bravely marched up the stairs at the World Trade Center without allowing the risks to stop them. Every time a police officer shows up for duty it’s a brave act when you consider how many of them die in unforeseen circumstances. For that matter, I think it takes a lot of courage to be a person of color today engaged in what many of us would think perfectly safe pursuits, like driving through town or being in a club. (Recently a white woman tackled a black teenager, accusing him of stealing her phone, which was later found in an Uber she had used.) My father jumped out of low-flying cargo planes into Japanese guns in the jungles of New Guinea. It was a volunteer outfit. I guess a lot of people think they would have done the same. Think again. |
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I was backing out of a parking space at my gym when I noticed a wheelchair behind me displayed on the car’s TV screen, to my horror rolling toward me. I hit the break and spun my head around, but saw nothing, and was afraid I had knocked it over without even feeling anything in a 2.5-ton car. When I looked at the camera gain, there it was: The photo of the handicapped parking logo for the space next to mine, which appeared to be moving because I was moving. I am not making this up. |
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