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Balancing Act®: The Newsletter

(No. 305, December 2024)

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  1. Essays
  2. Musings
  3. Developmental Stuff
  4. ORTIYKMWOYBNT-O Department

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Essays

Election Outcome

I’m surprised at how rapidly the Democrats have turned on each other assigning blame for the surprise and size of their election defeat, losing the presidency and both Houses of Congress. They’ve held power for 20 of the past 24 years. Yet they are now in debt to the tune of hundreds of millions, having spent $1.5 billion on a staggering defeat.

It’s wise to find the causes of defeats, whether in politics, athletics, or business. But it’s not wise to focus on blame. At one point Joe Biden was the savior, and Kamala Harris was a bright, energetic hope, and Barack Obama was a master strategist. They may not by any more, but it’s not because they changed. It’s because the party misread the American Public (e.g., relying on celebrity endorsements and actually insulting swing voters). The same for all of us. Admit the mistake and don’t make it again. The Democrats have to wait four years, but we can do that the next day in other endeavors.

Officiating

There have always been a lot of complaints about officiating in sports, especially in judgment calls. I recall watching my daughter’s field hockey games where whistles seemed to blow every 30 seconds. My dog would fall asleep on the sidelines.

But this is part of sports. You have to prepare for it psychologically and emotionally. It’s virtually never that the bad call decides the game, because there were plenty of opportunities at other times to win the game which weren’t capitalized on. Blaming the officials is “comfortable,” because you remove blame from yourself with that strikeout or dropped pass.

Stop blaming others for “ghosting you.” You simply didn’t offer enough value and excitement to prompt them to get back to you. No one else to blame.

Christmas

Maria and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. If you celebrate a different holiday or don’t acknowledge one at all, the Season’s Best from both of us. Families getting together, sharing meals, exchanging gifts, even getting a bit hammered and telling the old stories still one more time, are rich and meaningful endeavors.

I don’t think you have to be religious or to be offended by religion to feel that family, love, tolerance, and forgiveness are vital global, human traits.

Enjoy yourself, make a donation to those less fortunate, and be appreciative for what you have. The best gift you can give yourself is insight.

Musings

We saw two highly-recommended and very positively-reviewed musicals on Broadway recently (“Stereophonic” and “Suffs”). I won’t get into the details here, but my wife and I thought they were both mediocre. Yet the audience hooted and yelled throughout (people even “hoot” at the ballet, it’s just crazy) and provided the now-obligatory standing ovation at the conclusion.

There’s a saying that when everything is a priority, nothing is a priority. Well, when you think every play is great, then no play is really great.

In fact, people are giving themselves that ovation.

This truly began in my experience with Hamilton (an excellent play, but not as good as Lin-Manuel Miranda’s prior “In the Heights”). There was no curtain, and people were yelling and applauding well before the opening time of the play. There, and ever since, you lose part of the dialogue as people are screaming, shouting comments, and/or laughing too hard (that is, more than the humor really deserves). These are not rock concerts where you’re expected to sing along.

People who are paying hundreds of dollars (and more) for a ticket want to prove that they made a good choice, so they hoot and yell and get on their feet to show the world that the money was well-spent, convincing themselves and their comrades around them.

The second issue is that people have lost their ability to apply taste and judgment. We are so besieged with “showmanship” (“showpersonship”?) that we’re accustomed to Super Bowl halftime performances and not subtleties, noise but not nuance.

People will be listening to and perhaps humming the songs from “South Pacific” or “Fiddler on the Roof” or “West Side Story” for generations. No one is going to remember or sing most of the songs from most of the musicals today.

No matter how hard they stamp their feet and clap their hands to prove that they’re really having a good time, that’s not the metric for excellence. Where is “Little Shop of Horrors” when you need it?

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I'm an Old Cowhand...

Coming back from an early morning trip for coffee in the dark, I tried to unzip my jacket but the zipper kept getting stuck after about four inches of movement, so that I couldn’t even take my jacket off over my head. After five minutes of frustration and cursing I went into the bedroom and woke up my wife.

She put on the light and pointed out that I was unzipping repeatedly the pocket on the front of the jacket, and not the zipper for the jacket itself.

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