Election Outcome
I’m surprised at how rapidly the Democrats have turned on each other assigning blame for the surprise and size of their election defeat, losing the presidency and both Houses of Congress. They’ve held power for 20 of the past 24 years. Yet they are now in debt to the tune of hundreds of millions, having spent $1.5 billion on a staggering defeat.
It’s wise to find the causes of defeats, whether in politics, athletics, or business. But it’s not wise to focus on blame. At one point Joe Biden was the savior, and Kamala Harris was a bright, energetic hope, and Barack Obama was a master strategist. They may not by any more, but it’s not because they changed. It’s because the party misread the American Public (e.g., relying on celebrity endorsements and actually insulting swing voters). The same for all of us. Admit the mistake and don’t make it again. The Democrats have to wait four years, but we can do that the next day in other endeavors.
Officiating
There have always been a lot of complaints about officiating in sports, especially in judgment calls. I recall watching my daughter’s field hockey games where whistles seemed to blow every 30 seconds. My dog would fall asleep on the sidelines.
But this is part of sports. You have to prepare for it psychologically and emotionally. It’s virtually never that the bad call decides the game, because there were plenty of opportunities at other times to win the game which weren’t capitalized on. Blaming the officials is “comfortable,” because you remove blame from yourself with that strikeout or dropped pass.
Stop blaming others for “ghosting you.” You simply didn’t offer enough value and excitement to prompt them to get back to you. No one else to blame.
Christmas
Maria and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. If you celebrate a different holiday or don’t acknowledge one at all, the Season’s Best from both of us. Families getting together, sharing meals, exchanging gifts, even getting a bit hammered and telling the old stories still one more time, are rich and meaningful endeavors.
I don’t think you have to be religious or to be offended by religion to feel that family, love, tolerance, and forgiveness are vital global, human traits.
Enjoy yourself, make a donation to those less fortunate, and be appreciative for what you have. The best gift you can give yourself is insight.
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