BALANCING ACT: BLENDING LIFE, WORK, AND RELATIONSHIPS® A free monthly newsletter about balancing life, work, and relationships based on the books and popular workshops conducted by Alan Weiss, Ph.D.

 
 

Balancing Act®: The Newsletter

(No. 301, August 2024)

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Balancing Act® is in four sections based on famous quotations:

  1. Essays
  2. Musings
  3. Developmental Stuff
  4. ORTIYKMWOYBNT-O Department

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Essays

Age and Aging

I’m the guy who wrote Three Score and More and I believe that people can be cognitively sharp despite advanced years. An “age” is a chronological number. “Aging” is about the deterioration of mental and physical skills and acuity. The debate about President Biden has been focused on the wrong issue, in my view. It’s not about his cognition today, it’s about what it’s likely to be in four years when, presumably, his term would end if elected. How do we tell that? Well, cognitive deterioration isn’t normally reversable or even static. So I’d assess what his abilities were six months and a year ago compared with today, and then extrapolate what they would probably be in another six months, year, and four years. And I’d put country before personality and before party. (And that’s what ultimately occurred.)

Surfaces

Tennis is the only sport I know of where players are required to master clay, asphalt/concrete, and grass to win all four major championships. While golf courses vary, and the dimensions of ball parks are different, the very surfaces don’t vary with such marked differences. Thus, you have to be a superb and flexible athlete to win all four of tennis’s major events. I think the same principle should apply to key hires. See them at a meal, in an office, on the street, at a meeting, on the phone, on Zoom, etc. Can they master every kind of interaction, or are they great on a hard surface but slide all over the place on clay and grass?

The Non-Threat of AI

My auto dealership couldn’t track down why I received a recall notice on one of my cars, then their screens went blank, then they were able to access their records and told me there was no way that notice applied to me. My pool gives off a warning notice that the company tells me is usually a false alarm and I should reset the computer to get rid of it. It is often a search through the wilderness with a divining rod trying to locate water to find the latest episode of a streaming series on all the competing sources. The automobile was invented about 125 years ago, and still is far from perfect. I’m not exactly in high stress about AI taking over my life. I would simply unplug it and plug it back in. (And just look at the CrowdStrike fiasco.)

Strategic Sense

Do you know why all organizations—private and public, large and small, domestic and international, for profit and nonprofit—need to engage in an examination of their strategy annually? It’s not usually because they’ve changed, it’s because conditions have changed. Our average population is aging (morbidity outstripping fertility); supply chains are increasingly unreliable; technology is replacing white collar workers more than blue collar workers; remote buying is making traditional sales methods obsolete; acquiring and retaining talent will be harder than ever. If you’re not innovating, you’re not growing, and if you’re not growing you’re dying. Stability is vastly overrated these days.

Musings

To be “inured” means to become accustomed to something that is (usually) unpleasant. I recall during the Viet Nam War that every morning the lead story in every major newspaper—far right column, “above the fold”—was on casualty counts. There were maps and reporting of the use of Agent Orange, and North Vietnam’s inexorable progress.

After a while, one because used to it—inured—and it was somehow less horrible because overexposure can dull the senses. Last night, on the third season of Billions that we’re up to, there was extensive full frontal nudity on the show. And, yesterday, Russian missiles devastated a children’s hospital in Ukraine.

We see horrid highway deaths on TV frequently, along with repulsive and catastrophic damage from natural disasters. Once upon a time, such news wouldn’t be widespread and might be orally conveyed from village to village. Then the news was spread with more frightening efficiency by successive inventions of the Pony Express, the telegraph, the telephone, and radio. But even with these, the visualization was missing except for photos and art work which had constraints around them. The Hays Code was created to limit immoral scenes and dialogue from movies and lasted from 1934 to 1968! That final year was when I graduated from college, still protected from cinema immorality. (In “I Love Lucy” the show couldn’t use the word “pregnant” despite episodes being about Lucille Ball giving birth.)

The world seemed to quickly absorb the horrors of the Hamas attack that resulted in women raped, tortured, and murdered; babies heads cut off; and hostages taken. We accept the endless bloodshed in Ukraine. We are told of dictators the world over eliminating opposition, jailing protestors, and even killing their enemies on foreign soil.

Perhaps we really need to stop, look, listen, and evaluate. When we accept pure evil as everyday news we’re no longer focusing on it. We’re ignoring it, and thereby passively supporting it.

Development Opportunities
Not Without Honor…

New Newsletter:

Not Without Honor…

“A prophet is not without honor except in his native place and among his own kin and in his own house.”
—The Gospel of Mark, 6:4

Join me for a monthly newsletter that will explore, analyze and predict ramifications of issues and events in global societies. Each issue will focus on topics that will include politics, social mores, the arts, sports, technology, financial affairs, and other contemporary issues.

Develop the ability to discuss current issues with dexterity and insight and become an object of interest to others, whether clients, colleagues, or friends. The discussions will be brief and focus on three-to-five issues per edition. Letters and commentary from readers will be welcome.

For example, as we are undergoing the dynamics of morbidity outpacing fertility in most developed countries, there will be a profound labor shortage if actions are not taken rapidly. This includes such diverse political systems as China and the US. There are three key areas, that must be utilized to accommodate what is apparently a multi-generational problem. We’ll discuss what they are and analyze what must be done to successfully resolve the dilemma.

You get the idea. The first issue launches in October. The fee is $500 for the year of newsletters, including all back issues if you join during the year. If you subscribe prior to August 1, the fee is $400.

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The Spontaneous Session

New:

The Spontaneous Session

People laugh today when I tell them I’ve “prepared” for a Zoom or live session. They know my speeches are mainly riffs, and that I never change a word or phrase when I’m writing my books. (My all-time best-seller, Million Dollar Consulting, through six editions, has had exactly one paragraph changed by the publisher.)

What I want to do on Halloween is give you a treat by showing the tricks of my trade. I will actually demonstrate how you can be spontaneous and also highly impressive, controlled, and effective. You will walk out of the morning able to use spontaneity in business meetings, social and civic settings, in speeches and presentations, and in conflict. If you stay for the afternoon, you’ll be able to practice this with your colleagues and then with me. If you can do this with me you can do it with anyone!

If anyone else is providing this kind of help, I don’t know about it. If you stay for the afternoon, I’m buying lunch. And at the end of the day we’ll vote as a group on the best extemporaneous performance of those remaining and I’ll provide a credit for your entire fee to use for any of my future programs.

Stop saying, “I wish I had said….” or, “Next time what I’ll do is….” You don’t have to risk $200,000+, and I guarantee you won’t be risking this tiny investment either in freeing yourself to be even more successful immediately.

October 31, 2024. Las Vegas, venue TBD. 9 am to 4 pm (afternoon optional).
Full day $1,250, half day $950. Lunch included with full day.

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Thought Leadership 2024

Thought Leadership 2024

I’m hosting a tenth Thought Leadership Conference, and our first such session post-pandemic, in the Delray, Florida area on September 10-12, 2024. This will probably be the last such “live” event of its kind since my future plans are to create a quarterly Zoom subscription for this endeavor in 2025 and beyond.

We will focus on:

  • The No Normal® of the workplace and how to market and succeed in continually turbulent times.
  • What the impending US presidential election will mean for professional services.
  • How to create weekly, relevant, dramatic IP.
  • Staying ahead of the innovation curve using your own past and continuing “body of work.”
  • Passive, global income generation—creation and sustainability.
  • Options for successful use of discretionary time.
  • Financial realities and metrics for safety and security (and prudent risk).
  • Topics raised in the prep work sent to participants.

My newest book, Building Dynamic Communities: creating an evergreen client ecosystem, to be released in June, will be my gift to you, and the morning of the third day of the 2.5-day event will be optional and included in the fee. I’ll be “riffing” on that day on politics, society, education, personal wealth, and so forth.

The fee is $15,000, which includes rooms, breakfasts, lunches, and a cocktail reception. Finally, if you attend this session you may join the quarterly Zoom sessions next year for free, a $2,000 value.

My very special guest is the leadership guru, Hall of Fame speaker, and great wit Lou Heckler, who will be with us throughout the workshop.

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Million Dollar Consulting® Global Online Program

Million Dollar Consulting® for the World

I’ve provided 14 modules with videos from me, from your colleagues globally, slides, and text. They include everything from launch to self-esteem, proposals to fees, closing business to creating a brand. No upsells! It’s only $115. What do you think about a 10,000:1 ROI? We have over 500 people from 47 countries.

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Million Dollar Consulting® Global Online Program ADVANCED

New: Million Dollar Consulting® for the World ADVANCED

The new program contains over 60 videos and has 15 modules focusing on what to do in the buyer’s office, overcoming crises, financial planning, and much, much more.

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Sentient Strategy Certification

Sentient Strategy Certification

My new book on the topic released in March 2023, so this is an ideal time to market Sentient Strategy. Write me to apply, join over 70 people certified in six countries. One-time fee of $12,000, includes 90 days of my support, free admission to all future certifications, and admission to a private web board with other Sentient facilitators. In a recent program a particpant sold a $100,000 strategy program within 48 hours.

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NOTE: I’ve reinstated my inexpensive, limited coaching program I last used during Covid because I’ve found people who need help right now growing their practices. I’ve offered it to past coaching participants, but I can handle several more people at this point. Five calls at your desire: review proposals, prepare for meetings, create passive income, etc. $2,024. You simply have to use them before the end of the year, 30 minutes each. Should pay for itself 20 times over. You can write to discuss ([email protected]) or sign up by paying here: alanweiss.com/store/quick-pay/

Want to join me for my Book Sprint? In 60 days complete a proposal for an agent or an acquisitions editor (or the outline and marketing plan for a self-published book). We have an 80%+ “hit rate” for obtaining book contracts, complete with my introductions. The schedule is flexible and I’ll create one around the first people to register. The fee is $4,500—we meet weekly by Zoom with assignments in between and a common Drop Box to review each other’s work. Write me at [email protected].

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2024 Virtual Workshop Series

2024 Virtual Workshop Series
Major Growth Issues for Professional Services Providers

I’ve designed this series around the most frequently asked questions in my global coaching program, and from the advice I’ve provided that has most rapidly propelled people to much higher income and far less labor intensity. Everyone enrolled in each 90-minute program will receive a recording. I also encourage questions in advance.

All sessions are on Mondays at 10:30 US Eastern time so that you can begin your week with new approaches. The sixth session is intended to create a far more powerful 2025.

Session One: Ghostbusters
July 22, 2024

Learn how to prevent people from “ghosting” and what to do in case they do refuse to return calls and emails. However, my methods for avoiding this entirely are highly effective, and can be applied immediately—in fact, as soon as you leave the workshop or video. People call me back because they can’t afford not to.

Session Two: The Real Story
August 26, 2024

Story telling has been proven to be one of the most effective and high impact methods to influence others. Learn the three components of any great story, how to create them, introduce them, deliver them, and exploit the results. Discover the events in your life that are great stories that you don’t even realize you own. And learn how to immediately recall the appropriate story when needed extemporaneously.

Session Three: Brevity
September 23, 2024

Learn to shut up.

Session Four: Achieving and Sustaining Results Leadership
October 21, 2024
Step away from the hackneyed “thought leadership” (Does that mean you have more thoughts than everyone else?) and into the rarefied atmosphere of unequivocal achievements and concomitant brand power. Believe it or not, the thinking didn’t go into creating drills, but rather how to create holes.

Session Five: How to Be A Contrarian and Live to Tell About it
November 18, 2024

You need an “edge,” the ability to unsettle people. There IS such a thing as “too much quality,” and “overly happy employees.” The customer is NOT always right, and while the early bird may get the worm, it’s the early worm that gets eaten. Follow me right to the edge without falling over it, and learn how to be a constant object of interest.

Session Six: The 20-Hour Week, the Million Dollar Year
December 9, 2024

Some people say, “The harder I work, the luckier I get.” I say, “The smarter I work, the luckier I get.” Learn how YOU can create a 20-hour-a-week approach to your profession and/or practice, and how that can create a million dollars (or more) annually. These are not metaphors. I’m serious. You don’t believe that? Well, what if a thousand people bought this entire series that you are considering right now? That’s over a million dollars for me “working” 90 minutes a month for six months. If you think I can do that, but not you, I thank you, but shame on you! Don’t you think you ought to invest enough to see what you’re capable of, and if it’s possible for you? I mean, even if it’s 25 hours….

All sessions are recorded and distributed promptly as part of the program. The Special Sessions (below) are arranged with me at mutually-convenient times over the ensuing 12 months.

Single Session: $350
Two Sessions: $650
Three Sessions: $900
Four Sessions: $1100
Five Sessions: $1,200
Six Sessions: $1,300

Special Sessions: All six plus six 30-minute Zoom coaching calls with me, one-on-one: $2,500. These appointments will be adjusted to accommodate differing time zones.

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I'm an Old Cowhand...

I had the Rolls in for service and when it was sent back, the truck driver—whom I know pretty well—backed the car out of the transport, smiled at me, and said, “You keeping up with your payments?”

“Why do you ask that?” I said, perplexed.

“You’ll see,” he laughed.

That evening, before going to dinner, we stopped at our mailbox which is 150 yards down our driveway. Since the car would be with a valet, I opened the trunk to toss the mail in, and found the trunk absolutely stuffed with plastic and paper. My wife had filled it with recycling a week ago to take out to the recycling bin at the curb where the mailbox is, had forgotten about it, and there it remained when the Rolls service team opened the trunk to perform maintenance.

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