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Balancing Act®: The Newsletter

(No. 318, January 2026)

BALANCING ACT: BLENDING LIFE, WORK, AND RELATIONSHIPS®

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Holiday Greetings!

Maria and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. If you celebrate a different holiday or don’t acknowledge one at all, the Season’s Best from both of us. Families getting together, sharing meals, exchanging gifts, even getting a bit hammered and telling the old stories still one more time, are rich and treasured experiences.

I don’t think you have to be religious or to be offended by religion to feel that family, love, tolerance, and forgiveness are vital, global, human traits.

Enjoy yourself, make a donation to those less fortunate, and be appreciative for what you have. The best gift you can give yourself is to forgive yourself for whatever you may feel guilty about. We are imperfect but perfectly capable of improvement.

Essays

Battle Lines

The great battle of the American Civil War was Gettysburg. If Lee had won he could have marched on Washington, DC, where there were few Union troops, and the British, with their huge navy, would have entered the war on the side of the South. That battle determined the future history of the world.

But it was a defensive battle. The Union commander, George Gordon Meade, was happy to have simply stopped the otherwise unstoppable Lee, but to Lincoln’s frustration, didn’t pursue the defeated confederates. Consequently, the war took another two years and a hundred thousand lives to end.

You don’t win defensively. Not only can those attacking live for another day in retreat, they may just choose to isolate you and go around you. You can’t run a successful business defensively, trying to protect yourself and taking no risks. All businesses must grow, and to grow they need innovation, and to innovate they must take prudent risks.

Customer Choices

The desk clerk at the Palmer House in Chicago kept insisting on a credit card for incidentals when my contract clearly stated ALL bills of any kind were simply to go on my company’s master account. Growing frustrated that I was not conforming to her rules, and with a line behind me, she said with teeth gritted: “What will make you happy right now?”

I told her my happiness would be simple: Waive her insistence on an unneeded credit card and give me my key without further delay and, if her superiors had a problem, tell them to call me, but she should get this line moving. She did, they didn’t, it did. Turns out she was mistaken about my account.

The Inevitable

I don’t care what your politics are, but I was very sure the government shutdown in the US would end about when it did, on November 13. That’s because it was obvious that Thanksgiving was in two weeks, it would take at least a week to get back to a semblance of normal plane travel, and plans had to be made or cancelled.

Picture a family spending the time and money to be with other family members, requiring a connection which couldn’t be made, and/or stranded on Thanksgiving in a strange town, in a mediocre hotel, eating Thanksgiving dinner in a mediocre restaurant with strangers.

What would their votes be like at the next available opportunity? Sometimes you have to consider the inevitable, which is the immovable object that will defeat an otherwise irresistible force.

Lighter than Air

All the major automakers globally, with very rare exception in China, are pulling back on their electric vehicle investments, often abandoning them. The Chinese are powering their conversions to renewable energy by consuming huge amounts of coal! The zealous will tell you that it may be 2030 or farther out, but the new fuel will be here and other forms will be phased out. Just keep the faith.

That faith may just be known as “hydrogen.”

Musings

There is a craving for “magic bullets.” Let’s face it. We all think about it or actually take action to acquire them.

Magic bullets are those suggested remedies, cures, and corrections that will eliminate or at least ameliorate a chronic condition, physical or mental, large or small, male or female, real or illusory.

I seldom encounter people with body odor that is, well, odious. Not in the gym, not on crowded lines to enter an event, not on airplanes. Yet we were swarmed online and in the media with promotion for deodorants for the entire body, including as they coyly stated, “down there.” Was this a reaction to a reality or a suggestion that you’re smellier than you realize and everyone else is too kind to mention it?

These magic bullets can ricochet to hurt us: stupid, small metal rods to hold to our ears to cure tinnitus; pulsating machines to root out mucus for those chronically congested; “cures” for arthritis, overeating, hair loss, hair growth, lower back discomfort, and acne.

Then there are the obligatory legal warnings, in small print, or narrated by a person you’d think was announcing the next port on a wonderful cruise. You may experience uncontrolled coughing, high fevers, diarrhea, disorientation, suicidal thoughts, and the desire to commit arson. Certainly, the risk of suicidal thoughts merits trying to stimulate hair growth.

We’re obsessed with injections that can help with diabetes, weight control, kidney problems, blood pressure, almost anything else that ails us. And the hype and the advertising is directed at the consumer by “Ask your doctor about this,” not at the medical establishment.

Okay, fine. The phrase “magic bullet” originated with Dr. Paul Ehrlich, the Nobel laureate, in 1907. It never materialized as a cure that “always hit its target,” but it did lead to Salvarsan, the first effective treatment for syphilis.

 

Development Opportunities

 

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You must use one of the advance publishing options below and send proof to Alan ([email protected]) in the form of your receipt. This offer is good until February 10, 2026. Once made, there are no returns or cancellations. The bonuses will be fulfilled at mutually-convenient dates and times.

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The Fishbowl

In January I’ll be starting a year-long, monthly, “live” coaching session whereby one member of the group will be coached by me for 45 minutes on a current issue of theirs, we’ll deconstruct what happened, and then have 45 minutes of Q&A. This is a variation of the very popular “fishbowl” technique I ran a few years ago.

You may volunteer to be the person coached or simply watch. You needn’t attend every session and I will provide video to everyone afterwards along with written commentary. This should build your coaching prowess considerably.

This will be $500 for the year and I’m offering it to you, here, first, because I’ll obviously have limited participation. My offer to you is $400. (An hour of my “situational coaching” on my site is $2,500, so this is a hell of a deal if you choose to be coached or even just observe.)

You can register here: https://alanweiss.com/store/quick-pay/

I can only accept a few more and I’ll cut off registration on December 10, but if you wait and we’re filled, I can only put you on a waiting list.

 

 
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Read this far? It's May 18-19.

I'm an Old Cowhand...

I replaced the toilet tissue in the master bathroom recently, with the loose end coming from the top, and later in the day found that it was coming from the bottom. Curious, I reversed it to the top. Sure enough, that evening it came from the bottom.

I asked my wife if she were rearranging the roll to always start on the bottom. She said she was.

“How long have you been doing this?” I asked.

“Always,” she said.

We’ve been married over 57 years.

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