Who Are You?
One of the letters this month deals with image. What image do you want to convey? You only get one first impression.
I espouse leading fulfilling lives, ones of contribution and enrichment. To do that, I believe that you have to take care of yourself, first. (The Oxygen Mask Principle.) If you happened to be on a plane with me and I was flying in coach with first class seats available, or if you were with me as my guest at a restaurant and I suggested we split the bill, or if I were driving a ten-year old car with a smoking exhaust, what could you think?
This is akin to “motivational speakers” who tell you to “take control of your life” while they’ve been divorced twice, chain smoke, are considerably overweight, and drink too much!
Who are you, and what value do you want to provide for others? Are you representative of that value and image, or are you pontificating about something for others that you, yourself, can’t achieve?
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