BALANCING ACT: BLENDING LIFE, WORK, AND RELATIONSHIPS® A free monthly newsletter about balancing life, work, and relationships based on the books and popular workshops conducted by Alan Weiss, Ph.D.

 
 

Balancing Act®: The Newsletter

(No. 302, September 2024)

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Balancing Act® is in four sections based on famous quotations:

  1. Essays
  2. Musings
  3. Developmental Stuff
  4. ORTIYKMWOYBNT-O Department

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Essays

Obviousities

If you’re ever doubtful about your ability to help large organizations, consider this: Disney, in reporting its earnings, cited the fact that its streaming services had finally made a profit, but its theme parks and cruise line were down. This generated articles and analysis in both the New York Times and Wall Street Journal. This isn’t such a surprise, however, when you consider the demographic reality that more and more older people are watching and streaming at home, and fewer young children exist today who would be interested in their parents or grandparents taking them to theme parks and on cruises.

By approximately 2035, there will be more people over 60 in the US than there will be children, which is unprecedented. What would be the better investment, child care or elder care?

Common sense and being abreast of the changes in society, technology, demographics, the economy, and so on enable you to provide value to any organization. (If you would like to receive specifics each month in these areas and others, and build your competitive edge, consider this new newsletter, beginning next month: https://alanweiss.com/growth-experiences/not-without-honor/)

What “Never Give Up” Really Means

In the Olympics, a four-time NCAA champion wrestler was winning his match to advance to the finals. But his opponent was able to take him down with four seconds left to win the match.

“Never give up” means not only to keep trying when you’re behind, but also to keep trying when you’re ahead. Several Olympic races were lost when the leader was passed with just yards to go to the finish. “It ain’t over till it’s over” (Yogi Berra).

Not So Subtle Evidence of Poor Leadership

Not only has the Boeing Starliner space craft stranded two astronauts on the International Space Station (a nine-day visit has turned into a horror show that might not see their return before sometime in 2025 on Elon Musk’s craft), but it seems they can’t even get the Starliner back remotely, unoccupied.

Boeing decided to remove the remote piloting capability before the trip. So right now it can’t safely be piloted back or remotely returned.

This string of Boeing problems (now with the already much-delayed 777-9) with its aircraft and spacecraft is beyond accidental or bad luck. It’s about poor planning, poor quality control, and poor contingencies. And it serves as a huge, poor example for other organizations.

Let’s hope and pray the astronauts return safely (and that they brought a change of underwear).

Musings

I’m sure this has happened to many of you: Someone you can’t recall writes you citing your “friendship” and asking a favor: a review of their book, some referral business, tips on a vacation site. You worry for a few seconds that you might be having a senior moment, but then you realize that you truly can’t remember them even if they cite an event where you may have met.

Meeting someone–or knowing of someone—or attending their workshop or speech or reading their book, doesn’t merit the condition of friendship. Friends are people you immediately know, trust, and with whom you are candid. You trust their judgment and they trust yours.

This needn’t be frequent. I talk to or write some friends perhaps twice a year. Others may be weekly. I’ve always carefully distinguished between “client” and “friend” or “colleague” and “friend.” You may even have extended family members whom you don’t consider “friends.”

People on social media assume friendship. I don’t. Some of them are, but most are not. We’re not friends just because we’re both on LinkedIn any more than we’d be friends by both subscribing to the Wall Street Journal. That’s why I have no compunction about turning down requests, questions, and endorsements. (Or telling the endless people who try to solicit me on social media to bug off.)

People often inappropriately share personal information with others who clearly aren’t “friends”: hair dressers, bar tenders, personal trainers. And me. But I’m a coach, not a clinician. I can’t help you with a crazy son-in-law or with a spouse’s wandering, If turning 50 is so tragic, share it with a shrink.

Friends are relatively rare and extremely important. Let’s not kid ourselves. Perhaps people can’t tell a cubic zirconium from a natural diamond by looking at it. But the person who acquired it knows the difference.

Development Opportunities
The Esteem Machine

New Workshop:

The Esteem Machine

Pre-pandemic, I encountered large numbers of successful, good people who weren’t even more successful because they struggled with low self-esteem. They felt like “imposters.”

Post-pandemic, with the current constant volatility, disruption, and ambiguity, it’s far worse.

Low self-esteem creates high stress levels, guilt, and fear, and “masks” natural talents. You can never succeed to the utmost of your abilities if you’re worried about being “found out” and constantly concerned about how to “wear a costume” pretending you’re someone else.

Join me for 90 minutes and I’ll help you design a program for yourself that you can implement and follow by yourself, daily, to create a far greater sense of confidence and certainty about your true value and worth.

Via Zoom
October 8
10:30AM to noon US Eastern time
Recording provided

Fee: $450

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Not Without Honor…

New Newsletter:

Not Without Honor…

“A prophet is not without honor except in his native place and among his own kin and in his own house.”
—The Gospel of Mark, 6:4

Join me for a monthly newsletter that will explore, analyze and predict ramifications of issues and events in global societies. Each issue will focus on topics that will include politics, social mores, the arts, sports, technology, financial affairs, and other contemporary issues.

Develop the ability to discuss current issues with dexterity and insight and become an object of interest to others, whether clients, colleagues, or friends. The discussions will be brief and focus on three-to-five issues per edition. Letters and commentary from readers will be welcome.

For example, as we are undergoing the dynamics of morbidity outpacing fertility in most developed countries, there will be a profound labor shortage if actions are not taken rapidly. This includes such diverse political systems as China and the US. There are three key areas, that must be utilized to accommodate what is apparently a multi-generational problem. We’ll discuss what they are and analyze what must be done to successfully resolve the dilemma.

You get the idea. The first issue launches on October 15. The fee is $500 for the year of newsletters, including all back issues if you join during the year.

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The Spontaneous Session

New:

The Spontaneous Session

People laugh today when I tell them I’ve “prepared” for a Zoom or live session. They know my speeches are mainly riffs, and that I never change a word or phrase when I’m writing my books. (My all-time best-seller, Million Dollar Consulting, through six editions, has had exactly one paragraph changed by the publisher.)

What I want to do on Halloween is give you a treat by showing the tricks of my trade. I will actually demonstrate how you can be spontaneous and also highly impressive, controlled, and effective. You will walk out of the morning able to use spontaneity in business meetings, social and civic settings, in speeches and presentations, and in conflict. If you stay for the afternoon, you’ll be able to practice this with your colleagues and then with me. If you can do this with me you can do it with anyone!

If anyone else is providing this kind of help, I don’t know about it. If you stay for the afternoon, I’m buying lunch. And at the end of the day we’ll vote as a group on the best extemporaneous performance of those remaining and I’ll provide a credit for your entire fee to use for any of my future programs.

Stop saying, “I wish I had said….” or, “Next time what I’ll do is….” You don’t have to risk $200,000+, and I guarantee you won’t be risking this tiny investment either in freeing yourself to be even more successful immediately.

October 31, 2024. Las Vegas, venue TBD. 9 am to 4 pm (afternoon optional)
Full day $1,250, half day $950. Lunch included with full day.

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Thought Leadership 2024

Almost Here:

Thought Leadership 2024

I’m hosting a tenth Thought Leadership Conference, and our first such session post-pandemic, in the Delray, Florida area on September 10-12, 2024. This will probably be the last such “live” event of its kind since my future plans are to create a quarterly Zoom subscription for this endeavor in 2025 and beyond.

We will focus on:

  • The No Normal® of the workplace and how to market and succeed in continually turbulent times.
  • What the impending US presidential election will mean for professional services.
  • How to create weekly, relevant, dramatic IP.
  • Staying ahead of the innovation curve using your own past and continuing “body of work.”
  • Passive, global income generation—creation and sustainability.
  • Options for successful use of discretionary time.
  • Financial realities and metrics for safety and security (and prudent risk).
  • Topics raised in the prep work sent to participants.

My newest book, Building Dynamic Communities: creating an evergreen client ecosystem, to be released later this year, will be my gift to you, and the morning of the third day of the 2.5-day event will be optional and included in the fee. I’ll be “riffing” on that day on politics, society, education, personal wealth, and so forth.

The fee is $15,000, which includes rooms, breakfasts, lunches, and a cocktail reception. Finally, if you attend this session you may join the quarterly Zoom sessions next year for free, a $2,000 value.

My very special guest is the leadership guru, Hall of Fame speaker, and great wit Lou Heckler, who will be with us throughout the workshop.

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Million Dollar Consulting® Global Online Program

Million Dollar Consulting® for the World

I’ve provided 14 modules with videos from me, from your colleagues globally, slides, and text. They include everything from launch to self-esteem, proposals to fees, closing business to creating a brand. No upsells! It’s only $115. What do you think about a 10,000:1 ROI? We have over 500 people from 47 countries.

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Million Dollar Consulting® Global Online Program ADVANCED

Million Dollar Consulting® for the World ADVANCED

The new program contains over 60 videos and has 15 modules focusing on what to do in the buyer’s office, overcoming crises, financial planning, and much, much more.

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Million Dollar Consulting® Global Online Program GRADUATE

New: Million Dollar Consulting® for the World Graduate

Another 12 modules with videos by me and your peers on contemporary issues such as Raising Fees Aggressively, How to Be Consistently Interviewed, Maximizing Happiness, and Managing Multiple Projects. Join the people from 57 countries who are availing themselves of this inexpensive way to dramatically grow their businesses in any economic times. How does 100:1 ROI sound?

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Sentient Strategy Certification

Sentient Strategy Certification

My new book on the topic released in March 2023, so this is an ideal time to market Sentient Strategy. Write me to apply, join over 70 people certified in six countries. One-time fee of $12,000, includes 90 days of my support, free admission to all future certifications, and admission to a private web board with other Sentient facilitators. In a recent program a particpant sold a $100,000 strategy program within 48 hours.

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NOTE: I’ve reinstated my inexpensive, limited coaching program I last used during Covid because I’ve found people who need help right now growing their practices. I’ve offered it to past coaching participants, but I can handle several more people at this point. Five calls at your desire: review proposals, prepare for meetings, create passive income, etc. $2,024. You simply have to use them before the end of the year, 30 minutes each. Should pay for itself 20 times over. You can write to discuss ([email protected]) or sign up by paying here: alanweiss.com/store/quick-pay/

Want to join me for my Book Sprint? In 60 days complete a proposal for an agent or an acquisitions editor (or the outline and marketing plan for a self-published book). We have an 80%+ “hit rate” for obtaining book contracts, complete with my introductions. The schedule is flexible and I’ll create one around the first people to register. The fee is $4,500—we meet weekly by Zoom with assignments in between and a common Drop Box to review each other’s work. Write me at [email protected].

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2024 Virtual Workshop Series

2024 Virtual Workshop Series
Major Growth Issues for Professional Services Providers

I’ve designed this series around the most frequently asked questions in my global coaching program, and from the advice I’ve provided that has most rapidly propelled people to much higher income and far less labor intensity. Everyone enrolled in each 90-minute program will receive a recording. I also encourage questions in advance.

All sessions are on Mondays at 10:30AM US Eastern time so that you can begin your week with new approaches. The sixth session is intended to create a far more powerful 2025.

Session Three: Brevity
September 23, 2024

Learn to shut up.

Session Four: Achieving and Sustaining Results Leadership
October 21, 2024

Step away from the hackneyed “thought leadership” (Does that mean you have more thoughts than everyone else?) and into the rarefied atmosphere of unequivocal achievements and concomitant brand power. Believe it or not, the thinking didn’t go into creating drills, but rather how to create holes.

Session Five: How to Be A Contrarian and Live to Tell About it
November 18, 2024

You need an “edge,” the ability to unsettle people. There IS such a thing as “too much quality,” and “overly happy employees.” The customer is NOT always right, and while the early bird may get the worm, it’s the early worm that gets eaten. Follow me right to the edge without falling over it, and learn how be a constant object of interest.

Session Six: The 20-Hour Week, the Million Dollar Year
December 9, 2024

Some people say, “The harder I work, the luckier I get.” I say, “The smarter I work, the luckier I get.” Learn how YOU can create a 20-hour-a-week approach to your profession and/or practice, and how that can create a million dollars (or more) annually. These are not metaphors. I’m serious. You don’t believe that? Well, what if a thousand people bought this entire series that you are considering right now? That’s over a million dollars for me “working” 90 minutes a month for six months. If you think I can do that, but not you, I thank you, but shame on you! Don’t you think you ought to invest enough to see what you’re capable of, and if it’s possible for you? I mean, even if it’s 25 hours….

All sessions are recorded and distributed promptly as part of the program. The Special Sessions (below) are arranged with me at mutually-convenient times over the ensuing 12 months.

Single Session: $350
Two Sessions: $650
Three Sessions: $900
Four Sessions: $1100
Five Sessions: $1,200
Six Sessions: $1,300
If you sign up for all six you’ll receive videos of the one’s you’ve missed.

Special Sessions: All six plus six 30-minute Zoom coaching calls with me, one-on-one: $2,500. These appointments will be adjusted to accommodate differing time zones.

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I'm an Old Cowhand...

I was waiting outside the pool store because I arrived at 8:40 am and the sign on the window said “weekends 9 to 6.” No one had come or gone and at 9:03 I tried the door, which was open. I said to the guy inside that he was a couple minutes late in opening.

“We’ve been open since 8,” he said.

“But the sign says 9 on weekends,” I pointed out.

“Yes, and today is Monday.”

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