Since my wife is recovering from knee surgery, we decided to take a limo to New York rather than the high speed train (Acela) which often wobbles severely (reminiscent of the Toonerville Trolley, an historical reference for some of you).
Some business and personal practices require the individual to come up with stunningly stupid approaches. These aren't genetic or hereditary. They are not your mother's fault. She knew better, so get off the therapist's couch and take accountability for your