Alan’s Quest

We often crave for publicity and acknowledgment, but when that door finally opens we become tentative, afraid that we won't be "good enough." All you can do is your best. If you've done that, you've done well. Stop worrying about

The Great Wall of China was built between 700 BC and 200 BC. When I was there, I was told that parts of it which have crumbled cannot be repaired because it's too dangerous for the government to attempt. So a

An Über driver named Tasha here in Las Vegas went to the wrong address to pick us up from church, refused to drive over one more block insisting she was in the right place (she couldn't find a huge cathedral!),

Remember the song from the play Caberet? Money, Money, Money, Money, Money

I can silence a room merely by asking for a volunteer. I can also lose all eye contact. Yet what's likely to happen? Am I going to make someone sing, or humiliate them, or beat them? There really is no downside

My wife purchased Pekin ducks (first domesticated, by the way, over 2,000 years ago). They've been here for three years, two winters, and there are 15 of them. (I seem to remember 16 originally, but I don't want to alarm

Some people are dentists because their parents were, or they were told it was lucrative, or their friends were, or they couldn't become doctors. And some people are dentists because they love the career and the calling to help people. Which

We'll shut down the pool today and they'll come to close it tomorrow. It's always a little sad, but fall brings vibrant colors and the winter some beautiful white snow (snow turned black quickly back in New Jersey). And we

When I was young and we were poor, we could afford grapefruit on a weekend for breakfast. My mother cut two in half, separated the flesh from the rind with a knife, and the three of us would eat the

The true secret of a long and happy marriage is knowing when to keep your mouth shut. It sounds easy but is extremely difficult. I've found that it works well in coaching, also!