Failure Is Inevitable
If you want to overcome fears, ask yourself, “Truly, what’s the worse that can happen and what’s the probability?” Have someone help you, to ensure you’re being rational.
Writing something, speaking on stage, meeting a prospective client—these are not life threatening events. In fact, no matter what actually happens, they’re learning events The fears are between your ears.
My defeats and failures have improved my skills and resilience.
I still occasionally run into people who tell me they refuse to eat a certain food even though they’ve never tried it. I try to make sure I never turn into them again,