Your Legacy is Now
Life is not a search for meaning from others, it’s about the creation of meaning for yourself.
For over 30 years Alan Weiss has consulted, coached, and advised everyone from Fortune 500 executives, state governors, non-profit directors, and entrepreneurs to athletes, entertainers, and beauty pageant contestants. That’s quite an assortment of people, and they run into the thousands. Most of them have had what we euphemistically call “means,” and some of them have had a lot more than that. Others have been aspiring and with more ends in sight than means on hand.
Alan Weiss states:
I’ve dealt with esteem (low), narcissism (high), family problems, leadership dysfunctions, insecurities, addictions, and ethical quandaries. And I’ve talked about them through the coronavirus crisis. But don’t get the wrong idea. About 95% of these people have been well-meaning, honest (to the best of their knowledge), and interested in becoming a better person and better professional. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be talking to me.
I found the equivalent of the “runner’s wall” in their journeys, where they must break through the pain and the obstacles and then can keep going with renewed energy and spirit. But runners know how far they must go after the breakthrough, be it another half lap or another five miles. There is a finish line.
I’ve found that people in all positions, even after the “breakthrough,” don’t know where they are in the race, let alone where the finish line is.
They do not know what meaning is for them. They may have money in the bank, good relationships, the admiration of others, and the love of their dogs. But they have no metrics for “What now?” They believe that at the end of life there is a tallying, some metaphysical accountant who totals up their contributions, deducts their bad acts, and creates the (hopefully positive) difference.
That difference, they believe, is their “legacy.”
But the thought that legacy arrives at the end of life is as ridiculous as someone who decides to sell a business and tries to increase its valuation the day prior. Legacy is now. Legacy is daily. Every day we create the next page in our lives, but the question becomes who is writing it and what’s being written. Is someone else creating our legacy? Or are we, ourselves, simply writing the same page repeatedly?
Or do we leave it blank?
Our organic, living legacy is marred and squeezed by huge normative pressures. There is a “threshold” point, at which one’s beliefs and values are overridden by immense peer pressure. Our metrics are forced to change.
In an age of social media, biased press, and bullying, we’ve come to a point where our legacy, ironically, is almost out of our hands.
Yet our “meaning”—our creation of meaning and not a search for some illusive alchemy—creates worth and impact for us and all those with whom we interact.
Gary Patterson
Will start the bidding at the 2,500 suggestion.
Alan Weiss
And we’re off!! Please include your email address, unless for some reason you don’t want it publicly visible here.
Mark Rodgers
I’ll raise it to $3000.
Alan Weiss
Well done! Thank you, Mark.
Alan Weiss
Great stuff, have I added that we’ll provide two free passes to all films during the Newport Film Festival, June 4-7, including all parties and events with film makers?
Phil Symchych
I’m in for $3,500.
Dan Weedin
I raise to $4,000…
Mark Rodgers
Just closed a six figure deal … thanks in large part to Alan. $4500
Dan Weedin
Congratulations. I could use some of those..$5,000.
Alan Weiss
Very well done. Did I mention that I’m providing an autographed copy of my first hardcover book from 1988, and I have less than a dozen left?
Steve Whiteside
I would love to meet you and start a new path in my life. I also love to be part of charity work.
Steve Whiteside
Sorry my bid is $5,500.
Alan Weiss
Steve, I was just about to say, “So bid something!” and then I saw the second post! Thank you!!
Ed Poll
Looks like $500 increments, so I’ll go $6,000.
Alan Weiss
Excellent!!
Alan Weiss
We have 29 hours left, and Ed Poll is leading in the final turn. Noon, Eastern on Monday we’ll see who’s at the wire.
Rob Novak
In fine 2-minute-eBay-drill fashion, I’ll go with $6,500.
Alan Weiss
Bravo! Final results will be announced shortly (after I finish lunch)!
Alan Weiss
Rob Novak wins, my congratulations and sincere thanks for his generosity.
If Ed Poll, Steve Whiteside, Dan Weeden, or Mark Rodgers (or anyone else) wants to commit today to $5500, I will provide the same benefits and lower Rob’s bid to that amount, a win/win/win. Everyone will have the individual day, plus the other benefits.
I need to know before tomorrow, then we’ll schedule things. Rob, hold tight until then, you may not have to spend quite so much!
Erik Pelton
sign me up for the win/win/win! I missed opportunity to make a bid this morning, but excited about Alan’s offer that will benefit all involved. – Erik Pelton
emp at tm4smallbiz dot com
Dan Weedin
Alan, I also sent you an e-mail. Count me in for the W/W/W!
Dan
Steve Whiteside
Hi Alan,
I am sorry I have been away from my Internet for two days. I have sent you a email to make sure I understand, but sounds great! I love it when everyone wins!
Steve
Mark Rodgers
I have been out as well. May I still participate?
Alan Weiss
I did invite you, so of course. But please send your $5500 by credit card or check ASAP. Thanks, Mark!